There are two types of people in the world. Negative and positive. Which one are you?
Negative people say things like “I don’t want …” and positive people say “I want …” Let me give you an example.
Let’s take health & fitness. The negative person will say things such as:
- I don’t want to be fat.
- I don’t want to eat rabbit food.
- I don’t want to go to the gym.
The positive person will say things such as:
- I want to look healthy.
- I want to eat nutritious foods that make me feel great.
- I want to exercise and add movement to my life.
Can you see the difference? Yes, sometimes you do need to know what it is you don’t want so that you can know what you do want, however, if you constantly are saying I don’t want…well, my friend, then that is exactly what you will be getting.
Now don’t despair if you are saying to yourself, “oh gosh, I’m so that don’t person” – I was too, how else do you think I can help you. Simply take a look at what it is you are saying that you don’t want and turn it around to what you do want. You may feel free to use the examples I gave above.
One thing I have found that helps more people be more successful is to share what it is you do want, so find a trusted friend or if you’d like I’d be honored if you shared what you want with me. Reply here to this blog or email me privately at kim@kimravida.com.
If you find you would like some additional support in getting clear on what you do want and/or help getting there, I have opened my schedule up to offer you a FREE Strategic Plan of Action Strategy Session where you’ll be able to lay out exactly what you want and what you will do to get it. Email me privately at kim@kimravida.com, put in the subject line SPA and I’ll be in touch with you to schedule your session!
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain, clarity, insight and action steps to having exactly what it is you want. And not to worry, if you are still in the place of “I don’t want…” you’ll definitely walk away knowing what you do want!
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